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True Life Tapping
with Jane Nevell



Measuring Your Worth Through Everyone Else’s Eyes: Replaying Conversations and Self-Doubt
Do you ever replay conversations and wonder what someone else now thinks of you? Perhaps the hardest judgement isn't theirs—it's your own.

Jane Nevell
Jul 114 min read


Who Are You Really? Rediscovering Your Identity Beyond What You Do for Others
Many women spend years caring for others while slowly drifting away from themselves. This reflective piece explores identity beyond roles, people-pleasing, and gently reconnecting with who you are.

Jane Nevell
May 203 min read


Too sensitive… or triggered? Understanding emotional triggers
Have you ever been told you’re “too sensitive”?
It might not be sensitivity at all—but emotional triggers shaped by past experiences. This post explores what’s really happening beneath the surface—and how to begin understanding it.

Jane Nevell
Apr 215 min read


When You’ve Spent a Lifetime Agreeing (People Pleasing and Losing Your Own Voice)
Have you spent years agreeing with others to keep the peace? This blog explores how people-pleasing can blur your own thoughts — and what it means to start thinking for yourself again.

Jane Nevell
Mar 183 min read


Why We Replay Conversations in Our Heads (And What It Really Means)
Do you find yourself replaying conversations in your head long after they’ve ended? This blog explores why we overthink what we said, worry about how others see us, and how this pattern often connects to belonging, approval and self-doubt.

Jane Nevell
Mar 54 min read


Tired of Beating Yourself Up? Grow a Supportive Inner Voice
If your inner critic punishes every mistake, you’re not alone. This blog shows how to grow a kinder, more practical inner voice that helps you learn, steady yourself, and move forward with confidence.

Jane Nevell
Nov 18, 20256 min read


Saying No Without Guilt: Why It Feels So Hard (and How to Start)
If you find yourself saying yes when you really mean no, you’re not alone. Here’s why it feels so hard — and how to start saying no without guilt.

Jane Nevell
Aug 30, 20258 min read


When Roles Change: Rediscovering Meaning in Midlife
Rediscovering meaning in midlife isn’t about endings — it’s about new beginnings. As life roles shift, this is your chance to pause, reflect, and gently turn toward yourself. With small steps, you can create a fresh start, a life chosen by you.

Jane Nevell
Aug 21, 20255 min read


How Do You Know If You’re Really Being Yourself?
When you’ve spent years adapting to please others, it can be hard to know who you really are. This blog explores what authenticity truly means, how to recognise when you’re not being yourself, and how to gently rebuild self-trust—without pressure, shame, or perfection.

Jane Nevell
Jun 6, 20253 min read


Beyond the Buzzwords: The Truth About Being Authentic
Everywhere you look, someone’s telling you to “ be your authentic self ” or “ live your truth. ” It’s become the go-to slogan in...

Jane Nevell
May 9, 20255 min read


Finding Myself Later in Life: Why It’s Never Too Late to Change
You might feel like it’s too late to start again—but it’s not. This post explores what it means to rediscover yourself later in life, and why real change is always possible, no matter your age or past.

Jane Nevell
Apr 17, 20253 min read
Have You Stopped Listening to Yourself? The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing
Have you spent so long adapting to the needs of others that you've lost touch with your own thoughts, feelings, and wants? This article explores the hidden cost of staying quiet and how reconnecting with yourself begins.

Jane Nevell
Mar 25, 20254 min read
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